Here’s my situation, remarried over a year ago. My steos are great girls, 10 and 6. Having said that, the oldest is getting very entitled, though that’s hard to stop when there are so many grandparents, aunts, uncles, who say yes when mom or dad say no. Last night my oldest was sitting in her play room, bare feet on the wall.... not a big deal, but after running an errand, i decided to tell her that I had just painted that room a year ago, feet and hands don’t do good things. Expressed that she wasn’t in trouble, nor was it a big deal. What happened next is a big deal. She denied doing it, not only that, but denied even sitting in that room. Maybe she forgot, but this is the second time something like that has happened. Her mom isn’t sure who to believe. I’m letting it go, but am also like wtf