My oldest daughter has a friend whose mom recently passed away. His dad was in and out of his life, and has not been seen or heard from in 3 years. Mom and dad were married, but never divorced. Mom never pursued it, and her health had gone downhill pretty fast the last year. Mom and dad were both in the Army, mom was a medic, and during mom's deployments the daughter's friend would spend time with his paternal grandmother who lived in North Carolina where mom was stationed. He believes she is being truthful in saying she has not heard from him. They have a close relationship.
Now that mom is dead the son feels like he should find dad to tell him, and also because he wants to settle mom's estate. It isn't much.
Anyone ever hired a PI? @Jimmy McGill you do divorce cases, don't you? Ever used one? The friend thinks his dad is dead, probably overdosed somewhere is his guess. If the dad did expire somewhere would they necessarily look for family? I assume since he's a veteran it would be standard to run finger prints through a criminal database if they found a homeless guy who had overdosed, but what about a DoD database?
Helpful thoughts will be appreciated.
Now that mom is dead the son feels like he should find dad to tell him, and also because he wants to settle mom's estate. It isn't much.
Anyone ever hired a PI? @Jimmy McGill you do divorce cases, don't you? Ever used one? The friend thinks his dad is dead, probably overdosed somewhere is his guess. If the dad did expire somewhere would they necessarily look for family? I assume since he's a veteran it would be standard to run finger prints through a criminal database if they found a homeless guy who had overdosed, but what about a DoD database?
Helpful thoughts will be appreciated.