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How much time do you spend with your family?

I only know a few people with eff you money. They may have technically worked 9-5 but there was a lot of business travel and meetings and late nights that impacted their time with family. Their kids are able to have better work/life balance because of the money dad(in these cases) made.
I feel like I’ve done a pretty darn good job with a work life balance over the last 20 years, in part with getting a good start in life thanks to my parents. I am trying to do the same for mine and then some…
 
I feel like I’ve done a pretty darn good job with a work life balance over the last 20 years, in part with getting a good start in life thanks to my parents. I am trying to do the same for mine and then some…
I think for most of us that is the dream. My hope was that they start off in a better place than we did and that when we're gone we have something to pass on to them. So far, so good.
 
I’ve been full-time remote since 2010, which I’m really thankful for. I’ve still been able to build a good career, though my next job will probably require me to go into an office. Work time isn’t family time, but it’s nice to interact with the Mrs throughout the day and to be able to see and be seen by the kids sporadically throughout the day as they come and go (they’re now 21 off at college, 18 and heading to college next year and 14 next month).

Even with a busy work day added to their various activities, I never feel like I’m too far outside the family loop.
This 100% for remote work. I probably miss some of the benefits of being in office from a visibility standpoint, but at my last breath I'll never regret getting to see my kids one more minute in the day vs seeing coworkers
 
Not enough.

Spent Christmas and News with my Parents, Stepbrothers, and their families.

Was a wonderful time. First time we have all been together in years.
 
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During the school year I see my 3 kids for about 30 minutes in the morning while helping my wife get them fed, lunches made, and out the door. I leave for work either a few minutes before they do, or we walk out together and I help load them in the car. I’d hardly call it “quality” time as it’s almost always a mad rush. Then I get home around 6:15, immediately sit down to family dinner, and have about 90 minutes until bed time. So call it 2 hours total during the week. But then it’s all day Sat-Sun which I cherish and always goes much too fast.

My wife doesn’t work, so during the summer the kids usually sleep past when I leave for work, so remove that 30 minutes in the morning.
 
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All the time. We live within 45 minutes either way of all of our immediate families and we have very few close friends that we hang out with consistently so that helps.

That's the main reason why we never moved away to cities hunting bigger paychecks or a better social life: it's not worth it, family is much more important.

People being too busy or not "making time" to spend with their family is insanely selfish and lazy. Never wanted to be one of those people who regretted it later on and definitely won't be.
 
I see or talk to my parents, dad is 80 and mom 78, several times a week. My ex and I share 50-50 custody of our sons, 13 and 10, but I still see and spend time with them almost every day. Do as much with them as possible. I don’t see or talk to my brother or sister as often, but we still have a good relationship and probably communicate by text, phone or in-person a few times a month.
 
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