Not exactly sure of your direction with this rambling...
Are you agreeing now that isu is not Iowa's main rival and it is not even close? Because that is what I am saying and have stated for some time now (you likely were not around for the vanity license plate conspiracy theory expressed here by another wayward isu fan a few years ago. His claim was that a handful of Iowa license plates,out of a population of several thousands of such plates. absolutely proved that isu was Iowa's primary rival.)
If you were any sort of Hawk fan, then you would have practical knowledge of the rivalries between Iowa and Minnesota and/or Iowa and Wisconsin. The nerves, emotions, passion, you name it are always high and raw for these games. You seem to think that a state border somehow limits the ability for a rivalry to exist. Residents of Minnesota, Wisconsin, Nebraska and elsewhere can tell you differently.
Coach Fry was a mastermind in many, many respects. He inherited a football program mired in nineteen consecutive years of non-winning. Beating isu was simply a step in changing the prevalent assumption that little ole Iowa did not deserve to even expect better. Much more important to Fry was breaking down the supposedly insurmountable dynasty of Ohio State and Michigan in the Big Ten. Indeed, he was not a dummy and you would be wise to know a little more about what he set out to accomplish and the priorities he established to achieve the things he did at Iowa.