Great Point!!!! Many of us forget their most important job and that's to help mold these boys into well rounded young men with morals. I'll be honest, I think Cael and Tom are two of the best out there when it comes to doing just that.
Results, thus far are pretty good with both.
But you seem to be the biggest "Tom does it too!" poster in this thread, which I think is a) factually incorrect, or at least misleading, but also (b) implies that it would be acceptable.
Of course it comes down to the private discussions between coach/recruit/family, but "recruiting over" should always be a concern. You have pointed to rent/mejia in a handful of posts, and yes, if they were told they'd get money (which I don't think was allowed at the time they committed), and then that was backtracked it would be a problem. But just having someone commit to your school, and then recruiting and reeling in someone else isn't "recruiting over," at least no automatically. The concern with PSU, of course, is due to the high-profile nature of the recruits. Recruiting a top 100 and a top 10 makes sense, and you can imagine the conversation that takes place. Recruiting a 2 vs. a 3, with another top 5 already starting becomes concerning, because it is hard for anybody, including PSU fans, to imagine what that conversation is. Especially considering it has never been sustainably successful before.