Fluffles, maybe what is changing is previous conceptions need to be changed. What he did does not deserve to have based on this circumstances, pulling into a safe location. I don't know what the answer is or what the best way to de-escalate a situation, but that whole arrest just seems wrong, yet from your perspective it seems reasonable. You work in the field so I will give you some regard, but at the same token it doesn't look good when the tag is in the back of the car, and he was not driving fast or dangerously.