Odd couple of conversations with some of the ladies at the gym the last few weeks. A lot of them seemed to really dislike their MILs. I listened a bit, asked some questions, but didn't quite get it. So, I pursued a few more conversations and maybe I just wasn't getting the full picture, or maybe the media just portrays the male's perspective too often in tv and films, that the male character's MIL is the disliked one.
One of the ladies in a fitness class was grumbling because her MIL was coming in from the West Coast for 2 weeks, and another one needled her a bit and asked her if she was going to take vacation so she could spend quality time with the MIL? F no, she said. She then said she was probably going to take her to downtown IC for the arts fair on Saturday, give her $20, and dump her off for the day.
So, does your spouse/significant get along with your mother? What is the dynamic like? For the record, I can honestly say my wife and mom had a great relationship.
One of the ladies in a fitness class was grumbling because her MIL was coming in from the West Coast for 2 weeks, and another one needled her a bit and asked her if she was going to take vacation so she could spend quality time with the MIL? F no, she said. She then said she was probably going to take her to downtown IC for the arts fair on Saturday, give her $20, and dump her off for the day.
So, does your spouse/significant get along with your mother? What is the dynamic like? For the record, I can honestly say my wife and mom had a great relationship.