Did Serbia attack NATO before NATO bombed them and partitioned them?again, childish view. They hurt my feelings. Nato is not a threat to Russia unless russia attacks.
Did Libya attack NATO before NATO bombed them and helped jihadists overthrow their government?
Post Cold War NATO was an international imprimatur for foreign interventions, not defense of its members.
Former ambassador to Russia (and CIA Director under Biden) wrote to multiple administrations why NATO expansion was a bad idea.
This cable in 2008, released by wikileaks is the most succinct and accurate prediction of what happened after the 2014 coup:
https://wikileaks.org/plusd/cables/08MOSCOW265_a.html
Ukraine and Georgia's NATO aspirations not only touch a raw nerve in Russia, they engender serious concerns about the consequences for stability in the region. Not only does Russia perceive encirclement, and efforts to undermine Russia's influence in the region, but it also fears unpredictable and uncontrolled consequences which would seriously affect Russian security interests. Experts tell us that Russia is particularly worried that the strong divisions in Ukraine over NATO membership, with much of the ethnic-Russian community against membership, could lead to a major split, involving violence or at worst, civil war. In that eventuality, Russia would have to decide whether to intervene; a decision Russia does not want to have to face.
The regions of Ukraine that voted 70-80-90%+ for the president that was overthrown by a murderous mob rebelled against the Americans picking their next president. Russia picked up Obama's 'duty to protect' applied as the reasoning to attack the Libyan government help rebel factions in that civil war and applied it to Ukraine.
Catch this CNN report back in 2014?