Last sentence...nailed it! My wife is a teacher and she has taught in public schools and now 1/2 year in a private school. There is simply NO COMPARISON to the level of parenting in her current school, vastly SUPERIOR, than some of the public school situations that she experienced.
Every day for her now is a dream job scenario, as the students are almost perfectly behaved and she can devote 100% of her efforts on...wait for it...teaching. Whereas it was common in a public school situation, even in what are considered "good districts", to have 1-6 very undisciplined students. Too often, 50%-90% of her efforts were directed to managing the ne'er do wells...while the other 15-20 reasonably well behaved kids effectively waited for their teacher to get free from the hassle of constantly correcting the poorly behaved ones.
I support a parents right to home school their children, but I also kind of wish they would send their kids to school with everyone else too. (I guess I am a bit conflicted on that.
) I agree that most home school kids are fine academically, but often socially awkward.