I’m speaking in a personal/professional manner- but it carries into my personal life- the government, utility companies, and banks are consistently on a mission to f you over. Give it back. Fight them on everything, go extreme. Hell- I just saved like $100 last week arguing about fees. You know what made the difference? I said “ok, write me a check for my balance and I’ll do business elsewhere.” Boy did they cave- that much of an decrease in money they can lend out and screw others doesn’t play well.
These people are criminals and monopolies. Fight them and it adds up. Point is- you shrug your shoulders at 50k going out the door and defend it with an unrealized gain that never happened.