A very good friend of mine committed suicide over the weekend. Although we had not been in touch for a long time, he was a great person that helped me in a significant way at a time that it was greatly needed. He was from back home and had been living in Texas for a long time. Services will be there this weekend and I won't be able to get there. There will be something back in NW Iowa in the next week or two, but I doubt his wife and three kids will make that. It is common to send money along with a card in Iowa, but I never knew his wife and kids. Should I do something or just let it go? It has been at least 10 years since I have dealt with suicide so closely, I just don't want to do the wrong thing that could be potentially upsetting. I feel like I need to do something though. Advice would be much appreciated.