The NFL can do whatever it wants. If you want to debate that it is just pandering, meaningless symbolism instead of substance, or a Black National Anthem creates or reinforces a divide or adds to a feeling of segregation or separate but equal etc. knock yourself out. If you think it recognizes a group of people and shows solidarity for all Americans as we strive to achieve true equal rights (I said equal rights and not just equality because equality is a misnomer. (Some think equality of outcome is equality. Equality of opportunity and equality of outcome are two different things), such as, equal justice, equal treatment under the law etc. great. Each has their opinion on it. It is fact that the kneeling controversy did hurt the NFL ratings. The ratings have recovered somewhat since. The Black National Anthem is going to be played for the first game. So what? Let the NFL do what they are going to do. No need to really have an opinion. It won't change the decision either way... Just choose to do what you are going to do.
I do take offense at people saying "pandering to the military." You can't pander to the military unless those recognizing them are totally insincere in their actions (which I think is shameful if you don't respect them). I have a child in the Army. They are a First Lieutenant. They have been deployed in Syria for almost a year. Within their first week there, while on patrol, escorting a supply convoy, they were shot at by a .50 cal machine gun, some small arms fire, and were engaged in a fire fight with a small band of Daesh/Isis etc. ISIS still exists, but is without central and organized leadership, and is made up of loose local bands in a few areas. Remember, our military consists of volunteers. They also know what could possibly lie ahead, and yet, they still feel a strong sense of loyalty to their country and an obligation to contribute. My kid was entering their senior year of college when they decided they wanted to join the Army. Graduation was on a Saturday, and on monday, they left for basic training. What they go through, and the rigors they endure, as well as the academic workload they have to endure to learn and study to become the experts in their job/position or role is mind boggling. My kid told me what they went through to become an artillery officer was significantly more rigorous and difficult than 4 years of college. During the deployment, there was a stretch where my kid was putting in 17 hour days for 7 straight months, while living in a tent in the desert. My child's job is to coordinate/provide cover and protection for patrols and supply convoys. It requires them to make split second decisions with people's lives on the line, all the while trying to only kill the ISIS fighters and nobody else. They call in cannon or rocket fire, as well as coordinating air support if the patrol or convoy is under attack. Imagine the feeling if your vehicle becomes disabled due to an IED, and you are stranded, taking fire? Once they had to drive across the Syrian desert into Iraq as a small convoy of trucks. The highway is straight as an arrow, and flat for hundreds of miles. They were totally out in the open. They had a breakdown of sorts and needed to stop to make repairs. To make some of the repairs, they needed access under my kid's seat. So, they remove the seat, and my kid is standing outside the vehicle totally out in the open (while everyone else remains inside) as they fix whatever it is that needed fixing. My child said that was the one time they were most afraid of being shot.
With that said, I have a strong opinion on our military. I don't see any of it as pandering, unless the person/organization does not actually believe in what they are doing when they recognize the military. However, even if the NFL might be insincere, I still see the actions and recognition of our military personnel as something of tremendous value even if others don't.