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I hate dining out with people that are rude to servers

I like to think I tip well, but it never occurred to me to clean our table ourselves, unless there was an accidental spill or we came with toddlers.
First time we took our toddler of a granddaughter to a restaurant, they had really good biscuits. She destroyed the floor under her high chair with crumbs. I left an inflated tip…not sure if it was the server who cleaned it up though…

Edit: CSB
 
None of my family are rude to servers, but like 6 or 7 years ago I was out to eat with my no pics grandma for her birthday. Our server was a hispanic gal with an accent, but spoke english perfectly. When she started telling us the daily specials my grandma leaned over the table to me and goes "McLovin, I cannot understand what she's saying" in the loudest ****ing "whisper" I've ever heard. I wanted to crawl into a hole and die. It was incredibly embarrassing.

I left the waitress like a 50% tip because it was just.....uncomfortable after she did that/csb
You find any gum in your hash browns?
 
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This is the worst restaurant take I've read all day.

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Tipping has gotten out of control in my humble opinion.
I like to leave good tips. I look at it this way, places have closed due to not having enough help, (General Store in Stone City for one) if it helps keep the server financially interested maybe they will keep waiting tables and the place makes a go of it. Now if the service sucks, that’s another story…
 
Don’t think I ever had the experience but I witnessed a person work over a hotel secretary about something minor thing just to get the room greatly reduce before checkout.

I F’ing hate “ the customer is always right “ bullshit. Fact is right and wrong often is overshadowed by “power”.

If I have a bad experience, I still tip (maybe 15% instead of 20%) but I never go back. Not going back has a bigger impact vs making an ass out of yourself.
 
When she started telling us the daily specials my grandma leaned over the table to me and goes "McLovin, I cannot understand what she's saying" in the loudest ****ing "whisper" I've ever heard. I wanted to crawl into a hole and die. It was incredibly embarrassing.

I'd be embarrassed too, if my grandma called me "McLovin" in a restaurant loud enough for everyone to hear it.
 
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I cringe every time.

Now, I have no problems sending food back if it's wrong or asking why there is a delay getting served but I'll do it with respect.

I have a few friends, and my father, that are just downright mean and rude when these things happen.

I hate it!

This is one of those things I have zero tolerance for. Somebody who is rude to wait staff is a one and done for me. I just won’t go out to eat with them again ever.
 
First time we took our toddler of a granddaughter to a restaurant, they had really good biscuits. She destroyed the floor under her high chair with crumbs. I left an inflated tip…not sure if it was the server who cleaned it up though…

Edit: CSB

Do you ever leave a tip for the person who does do the cleaning if it is not the server?
 
I cringe every time.

Now, I have no problems sending food back if it's wrong or asking why there is a delay getting served but I'll do it with respect.

I have a few friends, and my father, that are just downright mean and rude when these things happen.

I hate it!
Hopefully they still don't spit in your food.
 
I cringe every time.

Now, I have no problems sending food back if it's wrong or asking why there is a delay getting served but I'll do it with respect.

I have a few friends, and my father, that are just downright mean and rude when these things happen.

I hate it!
I do agree. How do you feel about disrespectful and rude comment here on HR? It's ok because nobody is face to face? Just curious
 
I cringe every time.

Now, I have no problems sending food back if it's wrong or asking why there is a delay getting served but I'll do it with respect.

I have a few friends, and my father, that are just downright mean and rude when these things happen.

I hate it!
I go out of my way to be polite, even if there is an error or a mistake. One, it’s just the right thing to do and two, these people are handling the food you’re going to eat. Duh.
 
I do agree. How do you feel about disrespectful and rude comment here on HR? It's ok because nobody is face to face? Just curious
For me, I try not to be rude, but if someone deserves harsh comments, I will make them. Those recipients are voluntarily here espousing their views, opinions, and troll jobs. I see us as mutual combatants. I do not view restaurant servers as mutual combatants.
 
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My dad is that guy. He spent a lot of his life being a VIP and hasn’t realized that he’s just another old dude now. Even at restaurants he loves and knows the owners he’s routinely an ass and cheap tipper. When out with him we always add to the tip after he gets up.
This thread reminds me that I need to get a bunch of Starbucks cards for the ER nurses after this weekends shenanigans.
 
I can be a bit of a high maintenance customer. But I'm polite about it. Part of the motivation to eat out is that I'd like to be served and have my food the way I want it. So, I don't hesitate to ask if they bring out a tiny cup of mayo for my club sandwich & if I'm gonna need more...I ask. I want real butter for my pancakes, rather than margarine, want my bacon flaccid, and ask for anything but grape jelly. And I expect to be accommodated, when possible. I don't want my drink to sit empty for 15 minutes, when you're not even busy. Last night, my son & I went out to eat about 6:40, there were only 2 other table occupied, due to the snowstorm. We sat & ordered & I then found out they were intending to close at 7, so I felt bad that the gal was going to be there waiting on us past 7. I also asked if they could change the TV channel from Wheel of Fortune to the Hawkeye game (they tried, but don't get BTN). She might have been aggravated by us coming late & having to work on a night with few tables, but she didn't show it. I gave her a $50 tip on a $33 bill. If you're a crappy server, I'll revert to the standard 20%. I'm pretty fortunate & try & pay things forward whenever I can.
 
you can really learn a lot about people when you dine out with them

the other pet peeve is leaving their table a focking mess too, if you aren't going to tip well at least pick up your trash and stack your plates

come on people

Full disclosure: I’m a good tipper. Probably tip too much most of the time. BUT… if a person is having to stack their own plates then they have likely received mediocre service imo. It’s a pet peeve of mine when servers don’t clear the table. I still tip well, just saying.
 
My dad is that guy. He spent a lot of his life being a VIP and hasn’t realized that he’s just another old dude now. Even at restaurants he loves and knows the owners he’s routinely an ass and cheap tipper. When out with him we always add to the tip after he gets up.
This thread reminds me that I need to get a bunch of Starbucks cards for the ER nurses after this weekends shenanigans.

This weekends shenanigans like… Piitb Valentine’s Day sex?
 
Last year I had a post interview lunch @ Applebee's with the hiring manager and a few of their colleagues. I joked with them at they probably need to make sure I don't chew with my mouth open or yell at servers. They told me they take all interviewees there and they knew the manager so well they would sometimes ask that they purposefully mess up the order (i.e. sub onion rings for fries) and see how the person would respond.

Good test to judge someone by.
They couldn't even spring for Chili's?
 
you can really learn a lot about people when you dine out with them

the other pet peeve is leaving their table a focking mess too, if you aren't going to tip well at least pick up your trash and stack your plates

come on people
Stack your plates?

There better not still be plates on the table when I'm leaving.

Servers would prefere you don't stack them.
 
Agree with OP about people who are dicks.

Also, I’d add people who try to become best buddies with servers - usually it’s older people- and try to chat them up.

You can tell the servers are trying to be polite but have so much else to do and the diners are just oblivious.
 
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you can really learn a lot about people when you dine out with them

the other pet peeve is leaving their table a focking mess too, if you aren't going to tip well at least pick up your trash and stack your plates

come on people
My wife always stacks the plates and wipes the table down with a napkin. I never really thought about it until we ate at a restaurant in Cali a couple years ago and the server asked if we were from the Midwest. Apparently it’s a Midwest thing.

Do you Floridians stack your plates and clean up the table where you dine?
 
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Take an actual unbiased survey of servers from every walk of life and ask them who are the worst offenders of being completely rude poor tippers
 
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