I will say this, regardless of the school or the coaches at the school, recruiting is a bit of a dirty business. There is pressure to commit but largely a factor of where you fit within the food chain. If you are a top 250 kid, schools will allow you to take as much time as you need, the other Plan A kids can take their time (within reason) but ultimately need to make a call before the teams move on to Plan B kids. It is the Plan B kids that in my mind, feel the most pressure to make a decision (simply because schools have more options in this grouping). It becomes a bit of a poker game to determine who is holding the best hand (school or recruit) and this is the part of recruiting that is tough.There was an interview back a few years ago from the defensive back out of Omaha, Dickerson?, about how he felt pressured to commit, did commit, and then had doubts after returning home.
That's one instance that was made public.
Did your son play for Fleck?
One example that my son experienced was that he received a call from an SEC school on a Tuesday, asking him to fly down for the weekend. Given flights were quite expensive and given we already had a trip planned to a Big Ten school he really liked, we suggested coming the following weekend. The school said they would get back to him and that is the last time we corresponded with them as he was essentially ghosted. Obviously he was a Plan B kid and they were seeing who would jump first. The process can be really frustrating.
The portal has changed the landscape of recruiting too so that is why you see so many kids committing earlier in the cycle. Not sure it is the best thing but this is the world we live in.