I'm so tired of the old adoption argument being the salve to heal this wound. 2 million couples all waiting for babies to adopt, yet over 100,000 kids languish in our foster/adoption systems. WTF are they waiting for? Why are these couples making such immoral choices? Their choices that are affecting actual living, breathing human beings in the here and now. Those kids that never get adopted are in the pipeline for a continued dismal existence after they age out of the system. So these selfish couples choosing not to adopt kids from the foster system get a free morality pass, but the women who find themselves with an unintended pregnancy are the evil villains?
Fvck that.
Foster kids that age out of the system outcomes:
- 20% of them are homeless by the age of 18
- 70% of former female foster kids end up pregnant by the age of 21
- Only 3% of them end up obtaining a college degree
Former foster kids are far more likely to end up in the prison pipeline as well.
Perhaps we should start considering that many of these women that recognize they aren't fit for parenthood and that choose an early elective abortion are actually acting with uncommon grace and wisdom by preventing a life of misery for their potential offspring.