Going to my parents' house with the family. Not sure what it will be. Some years it's ham, some years it's lamb. Probably mashed potatoes and freezer corn. Often a salad with spinach, beets, red onion and I forget if it's blue cheese or feta. One somewhat uncommon thing that almost always accompanies ham (or lamb) in our family is "curried fruit" which is pears, peaches, pineapple and cherries baked in a curry/sugar/butter sauce--a really nice aromatic and sweet counterbalance to salty meat.
Tell me about your grilled oysters.