The mention of “Satan,” in the letter could be problematic, imo. It leaves me worried that the son might see that as an “out,” for their bad behavior.
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My understanding is the youngest son is a good kid, I am sure the colleges are burning up his phone line the past 24 hours now.
Also, my understanding is the middle one has screw loose for sure and tends to shoot first and ask questions later.
Just what I've been told, don't shoot the messenger.
I have 2 children who have totally different personalities. My two brothers have totally different personalities than I do and my wife's sisters have totally different personalities than her. Could it be that the parents just could not control AJ or things they thought were funny when he was younger just got out of control? It is possible that the parents are clueless and thought things would never catch up to him. Either way, I am sure the parents are worried about and afraid for AJ's (or Albert's) future.
I am not saying that he doesn't deserve to be punished and I am not saying that he doesn't need to learn to behave in a more civilized fashion, but for crying out loud - to insinuate that the parents don't care is over the top. My children have done things that I never taught them to do nor would I have ever done, so I am a bit more understanding in these situations.
That being said - he needs to shape up or he will be spending his prime years in prison. No one wants that for their kids. If by some good fortune the family or Albert turns to God as a source of strength and guidance and his behavior changes, then that is a win for everyone.
I am not saying that he doesn't deserve to be punished and I am not saying that he doesn't need to learn to behave in a more civilized fashion, but for crying out loud - to insinuate that the parents don't care is over the top. My children have done things that I never taught them to do nor would I have ever done, so I am a bit more understanding in these situations.
That being said - he needs to shape up or he will be spending his prime years in prison. No one wants that for their kids. If by some good fortune the family or Albert turns to God as a source of strength and guidance and his behavior changes, then that is a win for everyone.
Then good on you for being a good parent. AJ's are not. They have enabled his behavior at every turn, with no regard for disciplining him when he was under their roof.
Right? It’s more like, “you’re bound to do some dum shite that you will not want to take responsibility for. In those dark times, just remember, the devil made you do it, Son.”
Thanks for the compliment on my parenting. I made a few mistakes, but feel that I also got a lot of things right.
As for Albert's parents, it sure sounds like they enabled a lot of things or who knows, they may be mentally unstable themselves and can't help themselves. Albert may be mentally unstable. Who knows?
No one knows the battles people are fighting. I am constantly amazed at the number of adults that I find out are on drugs to maintain a healthy mental state and the number of them that should be on meds, but are not.
That being said - I hope he can pull a Marstellar and get his life and act together. I think the parents care but don't have what it takes to keep him from self destructing. Whether he came out of the womb a hell raiser or his parents encouraged or enabled it - I have no idea. Maybe it was a combination of both.
To say he is out of control is an understatement. He has been given gifts that could make his life exceptional and he sure does not seem to appreciate them. Now he is making those around him suffer. ie the person in the car crash, the girl filing charges, and who knows how many fights and incidents he has been in.
It would appear that God has been evoked early and often here. Maybe accepting personal responsibility could be a new avenue to consider.
care vs enable.
telling your kids to have confidence is one thing. Telling them every minute how great they are and how haters will be looking for their mistakes is unhealthy.
I don’t have kids so I’m armchair QBing the F outta this.
He’s a “Christian” (that’s in quotes because he’s a fake one. Not a real one). “Christian” Americanism is solely about being a dick and blaming it on the Bible. The odds someone like him will accept responsibility is zero. It was never ingrained in him.
(real Christians are actually wonderful people. This post specifically calls out the fake ones whose actions aren’t sanctioned by any god/scripture I’ve studied. Please don’t interpret this as bigotry)
"Shades of PD3" What shades, where we brought him in under a watchful eye and kept him to a very clear set of guidelines, and once he showed he couldn't follow those guidelines we sent him down the road, even though he would've filled a big hole for us? People act like this is a black eye for us, but Iowa handled it as good as anybody could, IMO. Gave the guy a chance to be a better person and wrestler, he blew it (even though he could've helped us team wise), we sent him packing.
Make no mistake, I don't want Ferrari here, but if Iowa gives him a chance I would rest assured knowing that Iowa was keeping tight reigns on him and wouldn't hesitate to give him the boot the second he didn't follow them.
Man that Ferrari Twitter account is gold.
And the dad. He was absolutely insufferable at Nationals in St. Louis.
One son having problems could be blamed on the individual.
Apparently #1 AND #2 have issues.
That's parenting...pure and simple.
Apparently #1 AND #2 have issues.
That's parenting...pure and simple.
"The son shall not bear the sins of the father, neither shall the father bear the sins of the son". Ezekiel (20).
Not certain this has useful application for this forum, but...
What if a father took some goods used in an incident with the son back to Texas. Who bears those sins?
Jesus, this keeps getting better and better for this guy. Haha.
You know you're going to regret all this when he arrives at Rutgers right? 🙂 (as he acknowledges potential conflict if he's looking at Iowa......) 😏
How is RU not tired of former Bergen Catholic wrestlers with big ego’s and overbearing fathers and a me first attitude yet?
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Sorry, not familiar with the history there. But I'm gonna go out on a limb and suggest there's a Suriano angle in there?
Sure seems like he has a certain reputation in Stillwater.
Just to clarify something- is rape and sexual assault the same thing or is one worse than the other. Also, has anyone heard how the girl who filed the charges is doing?
GFY Skippy. I don't feel sorry for you that you're a grade A douchebag.
I don't know what this is about but I really appreciate the enthusiasm.
What is the difference between rape and sexual assault? - Brill Legal Group, P.C.
Rape is the commission of non-consensual sexual intercourse against an individual by way of physical force, or the use of threats or drugs. Statutory rape,
www.brill-legal.com
Let him go to the WWF and wrestle with the Lions……..in Africa.
Thank you for bringing this idiocy over here to the wrestling forum.
Feel free to take it back there.
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I know zero about the family or their history. The letter looks to be three years old. I'm only speaking to the actual content of this specific letter.
I'm having trouble understanding why it is sarcastically called a "gem." Perhaps it is because of it combined with the actual negative perceived nature or hypocrisy of the family.
Thx. So I take it to mean that anything from grabbing a girl's butt to attempting to have non consensual sex is sexual assault and if the sex actually happens, then it is rape. From the charge, it would appear that no actual sex was involved. Hopefully, he had that much decency or common sense.What is the difference between rape and sexual assault? - Brill Legal Group, P.C.
Rape is the commission of non-consensual sexual intercourse against an individual by way of physical force, or the use of threats or drugs. Statutory rape,
MitchLL and his crew. Unfortunately living proof that the Monkeypox Vaccine does indeed work.
How about Andrew Young and Gavin Teasdale? Cael will take anyone if that one helps his team.
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