Well, yes, obviously running up to the stands immediately after a match counts as time where he'd need to cool down.Does running up in the stands like a psycho and threatening to kill a parent, "If not today I'll get you someday..." after a match count as behavior off the mat, or are you putting that in the window of time he's allowed to "calm down?" It's a damn good thing Terry was there or someone was leaving in handcuffs. There were kids there, btw...
Because I was sitting 10 feet away from that one at Luther with some Platteville parents who are co-workers of mine. Is that close enough?
Look, spectrum or not, he can't control his actions...and someday I think it's going to end him up in some bad trouble when TnT and a whole bunch of other people aren't around to corral him. I honestly hope it never happens and I hope he gets himself sorted out as he gets older.
Besides, I was in the stands 5 ft away with family members of some of the wrestlers at the Luther open, and all I heard him say is "your son wrestled a great day today, sir" and shake his hand. See how easy this is?