Trad’s statement that deciding to be trans should be an adult decision is 100% correct. To respond to an argument with “you just don’t understand because you haven’t experienced it” is a “know-better” attitude.You got a funny way of showing it. Your reply about being a "know better" to Gimmered before you realized he actually lives it every f'ing day was really sympathetic. Maybe don't be so quick to judge someone before you understand their situation. POS
You are correct that I probably would have responded differently had I known the details, but that is just because I’m not trying to be cruel. But sympathy for someone doesn’t change my opinion.