I'm reluctant to post this on here as I'm sure it's just another chance for people here to call my wife a whore. With that out of the way, my wife and I did participate in a full swap with another couple. It was weird, a borderline nightmare, awkward, sad, funny and liberating all at the same time. It was not her co-worker before you ask, although I would seriously consider that as his wife is very attractive.
I'll just leave the story here and you can all say whatever crap you want. We talked more about this several weeks ago and the curiosity got the best of us, I guess. We are both pretty open and secure people so we figured if anyone can handle this, it's us. Our one agreement is that it can't be with any personal friends or acquaintances, people from work, etc. She left it up to me to try to set this up.
This next part sounds weird as i didn't really know what to do to set something like this up, so I did some research as to the best way to do this, but stay safe. Since everything I found took you down some rabbit hole that ends up in giving a credit card and crossing your fingers, I gave up and started searching craigslist. There's an interesting place...you can find anything there and most you wouldn't want to find! Anyway, I found quite a few couples that appeared to be real and said many of the right things on their ad. I narrowed it down to 3 that I wanted to pursue. 2 didn't have pictures and one looked to be a very good looking couple. I sent a note and basically said it's our first time.
The first couple (the hot ones) was right down to business. They wanted pics of both of us with and without clothes, a close up of my junk, etc. I figured, what the hell - it's all going to be out there anyway. I sent them all, but nothing ever really came of that. I responded to her and am still sitting here waiting for her to send their pics, lol...
The next one had no pictures on there and it was pretty hot talking back and forth, but i soon found out why they didn't have pictures. They were probably 10 years older than us (meaning at least almost 60) and they were not built at all like they said. I'm still getting emails from the wife saying it's ok for her to do this on her own too.
The other one turned out to be the most normal and was quite easy to talk to. We exchanged pictures with clothing on and it carried on for a bit and we agreed to meet out for a drink at a hotel we both agreed on. They were attractive but I really needed to meet up with them first to make sure we all got along before doing this. They were quite nice. He had a sense of humor and put my wife at ease. She was pretty, pleasant, etc. They weren't models, but this was very pleasant surprise.
They had tried this a couple times with mixed reviews. They said this would be their last attempt, but joked that there's no pressure on us - they were content where they were in this. I was just happy we weren't hooked up with some type of porn stars. So we had a few drinks and went up to their room. It was a good size suite with two rooms which made me feel a bit better. This is where I'll tell you that if you do nothing else in your married life, you should try this. I haven't been nervous like this in years, but it was a good nervous and exciting. Anyway, we're in their room and before i can say anything, my wife jumps in and says "So I guess you'll need to lead the way since you have the experience..." which answered my question on whether she would have seconds thoughts...
Right away that guy comes over to her and grabs her hand and leads her into the back room. It was a little awkward feeling seeing that, but the whole thing was crazy already anyway so I looked to see what his wife was planning. As soon as I looked, she was there ready lead me into the same room. The lamp was on and he had already laid my wife down and was kissing on her neck. I'll admit, that was the one time I felt a bit jealous, but before i knew it the wife was all over me. Not slow and easy or anything, she was making out with me like our plane was going down. Well that got his attention and i noticed he was paying as much attention to us as he was to my wife. She's pulling my clothes off and her own during this time and it's all so fast, i was just going along with it. She's all over me, making out with sloppy kisses, pulling at my junk....Then he starts the same way with my wife although it seemed she wasn't real impressed with that since she likes it a bit slower and easy at first. He was really awkward and was partially messing with her, but mostly watching us
Fast forward 5 minutes, we're completely naked and his wife is pulling on me like crazy and rubbing herself on my leg. She climbs on me and really got after it. She had a nicer body than I thought based on the clothes she was wearing and i was having a great time, but my wife was not. As she was going all prison sex with me, he couldn't get it up and was kind of crossed between jealous and suggesting maybe we should hold off to emotional and almost crying. He kept saying weird things, like "wow babe, you don't f*** me like that!" and other awkward things. At that point I thought maybe we should stop as it was really weird the way he was acting. I caught my wifes eye and she's thinking "oh god, what have I got myself into". I tell his wife maybe we should stop and she whispered 'he's a pussy, this happened last time, let him sit there" or something like that. Finally it was too awkward, they were both watching us, my wife was getting more upset and he was near breaking down into full sobbing. I pulled away from her and said it looks like it's not going to work this time... and walked toward the bathroom.
When I got in the front bathroom, his wife showed up at the door. She said she told them she should go apologize, but when she got in there she was like the wife on Step Brothers - I literally think she was going to rape me if I said no, so we messed around a few minutes and I was done in no time. She walked out almost immediately as though nothing happened and I took a shower and got dressed.
When I came out, my wife was dressed and ready to go. She basically pulled me out of the room while hardly saying good bye. Apparently, she had yet to get fully dressed and the husband tried to come back and finish the job. He was limp and couldn't get it done, so the wife thought she'd jump in. My wife stopped her immediately and said she thought the night is over. I guess the guy got all jumpy like he didn't have a chance to screw my wife, etc. His wife lied to him and said "We didn't finish, it's the same for both of us" which is the only thing that calmed him down enough to agree the night was over.
Make fun all you want, but that's my story. My wife hasn't said a word about this since we left, so I think our swinging days are over.
I'll just leave the story here and you can all say whatever crap you want. We talked more about this several weeks ago and the curiosity got the best of us, I guess. We are both pretty open and secure people so we figured if anyone can handle this, it's us. Our one agreement is that it can't be with any personal friends or acquaintances, people from work, etc. She left it up to me to try to set this up.
This next part sounds weird as i didn't really know what to do to set something like this up, so I did some research as to the best way to do this, but stay safe. Since everything I found took you down some rabbit hole that ends up in giving a credit card and crossing your fingers, I gave up and started searching craigslist. There's an interesting place...you can find anything there and most you wouldn't want to find! Anyway, I found quite a few couples that appeared to be real and said many of the right things on their ad. I narrowed it down to 3 that I wanted to pursue. 2 didn't have pictures and one looked to be a very good looking couple. I sent a note and basically said it's our first time.
The first couple (the hot ones) was right down to business. They wanted pics of both of us with and without clothes, a close up of my junk, etc. I figured, what the hell - it's all going to be out there anyway. I sent them all, but nothing ever really came of that. I responded to her and am still sitting here waiting for her to send their pics, lol...
The next one had no pictures on there and it was pretty hot talking back and forth, but i soon found out why they didn't have pictures. They were probably 10 years older than us (meaning at least almost 60) and they were not built at all like they said. I'm still getting emails from the wife saying it's ok for her to do this on her own too.
The other one turned out to be the most normal and was quite easy to talk to. We exchanged pictures with clothing on and it carried on for a bit and we agreed to meet out for a drink at a hotel we both agreed on. They were attractive but I really needed to meet up with them first to make sure we all got along before doing this. They were quite nice. He had a sense of humor and put my wife at ease. She was pretty, pleasant, etc. They weren't models, but this was very pleasant surprise.
They had tried this a couple times with mixed reviews. They said this would be their last attempt, but joked that there's no pressure on us - they were content where they were in this. I was just happy we weren't hooked up with some type of porn stars. So we had a few drinks and went up to their room. It was a good size suite with two rooms which made me feel a bit better. This is where I'll tell you that if you do nothing else in your married life, you should try this. I haven't been nervous like this in years, but it was a good nervous and exciting. Anyway, we're in their room and before i can say anything, my wife jumps in and says "So I guess you'll need to lead the way since you have the experience..." which answered my question on whether she would have seconds thoughts...
Right away that guy comes over to her and grabs her hand and leads her into the back room. It was a little awkward feeling seeing that, but the whole thing was crazy already anyway so I looked to see what his wife was planning. As soon as I looked, she was there ready lead me into the same room. The lamp was on and he had already laid my wife down and was kissing on her neck. I'll admit, that was the one time I felt a bit jealous, but before i knew it the wife was all over me. Not slow and easy or anything, she was making out with me like our plane was going down. Well that got his attention and i noticed he was paying as much attention to us as he was to my wife. She's pulling my clothes off and her own during this time and it's all so fast, i was just going along with it. She's all over me, making out with sloppy kisses, pulling at my junk....Then he starts the same way with my wife although it seemed she wasn't real impressed with that since she likes it a bit slower and easy at first. He was really awkward and was partially messing with her, but mostly watching us
Fast forward 5 minutes, we're completely naked and his wife is pulling on me like crazy and rubbing herself on my leg. She climbs on me and really got after it. She had a nicer body than I thought based on the clothes she was wearing and i was having a great time, but my wife was not. As she was going all prison sex with me, he couldn't get it up and was kind of crossed between jealous and suggesting maybe we should hold off to emotional and almost crying. He kept saying weird things, like "wow babe, you don't f*** me like that!" and other awkward things. At that point I thought maybe we should stop as it was really weird the way he was acting. I caught my wifes eye and she's thinking "oh god, what have I got myself into". I tell his wife maybe we should stop and she whispered 'he's a pussy, this happened last time, let him sit there" or something like that. Finally it was too awkward, they were both watching us, my wife was getting more upset and he was near breaking down into full sobbing. I pulled away from her and said it looks like it's not going to work this time... and walked toward the bathroom.
When I got in the front bathroom, his wife showed up at the door. She said she told them she should go apologize, but when she got in there she was like the wife on Step Brothers - I literally think she was going to rape me if I said no, so we messed around a few minutes and I was done in no time. She walked out almost immediately as though nothing happened and I took a shower and got dressed.
When I came out, my wife was dressed and ready to go. She basically pulled me out of the room while hardly saying good bye. Apparently, she had yet to get fully dressed and the husband tried to come back and finish the job. He was limp and couldn't get it done, so the wife thought she'd jump in. My wife stopped her immediately and said she thought the night is over. I guess the guy got all jumpy like he didn't have a chance to screw my wife, etc. His wife lied to him and said "We didn't finish, it's the same for both of us" which is the only thing that calmed him down enough to agree the night was over.
Make fun all you want, but that's my story. My wife hasn't said a word about this since we left, so I think our swinging days are over.
