Do we really know what Gard said after Howard said he would remember the timeout? The grab and restraint was inappropriate, but if the language was more than a neutral "what do you mean", then Gard needs to also face punishment, but not a severe as what Howard needs to get. Both teams could be hurt if some of their better players also have to sit out a couple of games for throwing punches. UM is already a bubble team, and this could make it burst.