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What would you do if your child came out as transgender?

Shows why so many trans feel lost and like no other solution but suicide. Phenomenal would call them evil and sinners, and go attack all the current friends they have. That sounds like a winner solution. You are really going to endear them that way and completely eliminate any influence you may have the situation, push them away and increase their suicide chances. Parent of the year award for him.

No. I call adults who prey on the suffering and vulnerable to collect a paycheck evil. You don’t agree?
 
This is the exact wrong thing to do. You do this and you will fvck them up. Please. Don't ever do this.
"Just let them be"..........

What do you imagine Jesus would do in this situation?
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Shows why so many trans feel lost and like no other solution but suicide. Phenomenal would call them evil and sinners, and go attack all the current friends they have. That sounds like a winner solution. You are really going to endear them that way and completely eliminate any influence you may have the situation, push them away and increase their suicide chances. Parent of the year award for him.
Nah, he'd show them his links. That'd do it.
 
No. I call adults who prey on the suffering and vulnerable to collect a paycheck evil. You don’t agree?
Similar story to another. Kid I went to school said god made them the wrong sex, as young as I can remember. Now didn’t go trans route but was gay. No adult put this in their head. No one was preying on them. They were and are emotionally stable. And happier than most people I know. What is wrong with this picture in your mind, personally their relationship is beautiful to me. Not perfect but life isn’t perfect. Another from community from deeply religious prominent family. Daughter was valedictorian, went to college for athletics and did very well, some here may even have heard of her. In either case she came out as gay. Her siblings and parents appear to support her.
 
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Except add these countries medical
professionals that came over to my side.

Finland June 2020 ✅
Sweden May 2021 ✅
France February 2022 ✅
Norway March 2023 ✅
England March 2024 ✅
Scotland July 2024 ✅

Transitioning is a witchcraft level practice the Christian Right movement on a moral basis has been behind. It is among the cruelest and most debasing practices our society has found to inflict torture on its citizens. Both physically and psychotically.

The cruelty I was referring to be the lack of understanding you would be willing to extend to (your) transgender child.
 
Having trans feelings during a certain stage of young life and coming to the adult conclusion that one is indeed a transperson are two different things, IMO.

Before 18, I'd want a pretty good family counseling and 1 on 1 counseling for my child.
I'm of the opinion that a child shouldn't have any blockers or surgery prior to 18.

After 18, I'd want the child to go through significant counseling to make sure he or she is ready for a permanent change to his or her body, with the understanding that a surgically modified body isn't going to be exactly like a biological man or woman's.

After all that, it's their call. I'm still going to be "dad", and I'd just need to get used to the change. I see people fight over so much stupid family shit, it's not worth losing your child over something like this.
Correct.

Only thing I'd include for myself is that, if I had a daughter, then from birth, I'm gonna raise her as a daughter. If I have a son, from birth, I'm raising him as a son.

Then when they turn 18 and are legally allowed to be fully and independently responsible for their actions, I'll have to switch from the role of a "coach" to "spectator/fan".
 
Correct.

Only thing I'd include for myself is that, if I had a daughter, then from birth, I'm gonna raise her as a daughter. If I have a son, from birth, I'm raising him as a son.

Then when they turn 18 and are legally allowed to be fully and independently responsible for their actions, I'll have to switch from the role of a "coach" to "spectator/fan".
Mental and physical health doesn’t align with such a rigid timeline. The reason so many LGBTQ kids suffer from mental health issues and end up harming themselves is because their parents ignore their medical needs, or do not provide a loving environment. You can’t tell a kid with a broken arm they need to wait for treatment. If doctors and mental health experts are telling you your child needs specific care related to their gender you need to provide it. You will regret the rejection you are giving instead of the love children need.
 
You stand for nothing and provide nothing.
But really though, what I stand for and provide, is common sense.

Voting for someone, who is still undeserving of the role they're nominated for, simply because the only other candidate you're told you can vote for is an awful human being..........is not common sense.

In fact it is very, very flawed. And nobody doing a goddamn thing about the situation and the vicious cycle this has become also defies common sense.

I simply point out your failures, and let you get offended by it because you don't like what you're hearing even when it's the truth................ ;)
 
The reason so many LGBTQ kids suffer from mental health issues and end up harming themselves is because their parents ignore their medical needs, or do not provide a loving environment.

That's a very broad claim that applies to many kids that aren't LGBTQ and have much lower mental health problems and suicide rates.

Can you prove your claim?

Just curious.
 
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Immigration and trans. Man, you must live an unfilled life to be so filled with hatred.

A wise man once said, the loudest voice complaining about homosexuals comes from the closet.

Do we need to look in yours? People usually have reasons to obsess.
Umm. Being homosexual is different than being mentally ill and thinking you are a different gender.
 
Do you think it's a good thing for people to be trans?

Bad?

Neutral?
It's a bad thing, it's a difficult life. How would you feel going through life where a large portion of the population doesn't want you to exist. There is nothing that would make my child happier than to understand why they are trans. Why them?
 
Sounds like the deceased had severe mental illness and the college and their friends failed to help them in any meaningful way. That’s sad for everyone involved.

What would I do? I would question and investigate every influence they had in their life that pushed that mind virus garbage into their brain.
It’s amazing that just because Musks kids hate him you feel the need to be a giant hateful asshole. Have you considered therapy? You clearly need it.
 
Having trans feelings during a certain stage of young life and coming to the adult conclusion that one is indeed a transperson are two different things, IMO.

Before 18, I'd want a pretty good family counseling and 1 on 1 counseling for my child.
I'm of the opinion that a child shouldn't have any blockers or surgery prior to 18.

After 18, I'd want the child to go through significant counseling to make sure he or she is ready for a permanent change to his or her body, with the understanding that a surgically modified body isn't going to be exactly like a biological man or woman's.

After all that, it's their call. I'm still going to be "dad", and I'd just need to get used to the change. I see people fight over so much stupid family shit, it's not worth losing your child over something like this.
Puberty blockers were never brought up with my child, there was years of counseling and DR visits working through the vast problems before we ever addressed the gender dysphoria. But honestly blockers after 18 are totally pointless. Puberty blockers tap the brakes on irreversible changes. When you are shocked to find an adult is transgender, puberty blockers were likely used before puberty.
 
@BrianNole777 you've asked a lot of good questions here. I'm on the night shift here but I want you do try something for me, and maybe it will change your perspective a little bit, and if not, that's OK too.
Go ask those same questions, but instead of transgender or gender dysphoria, substitute autistic or Autism.

I've gone over the parallels before, and have no problem doing it again, but just for an experiment put it on the same level and see if it makes sense.
 
The USA is on the wrong side of history currently. We are in the Dark Ages.

Countries that all dropped gender transitioning / sterilizing children:

Finland June 2020 ✅
Sweden May 2021 ✅
France February 2022 ✅
Norway March 2023 ✅
England March 2024 ✅
Scotland July 2024 ✅
You're too much of a moron to know what is dropped and not dropped.
 
The USA is on the wrong side of history currently. We are in the Dark Ages.

Countries that all dropped gender transitioning / sterilizing children:

Finland June 2020 ✅
Sweden May 2021 ✅
France February 2022 ✅
Norway March 2023 ✅
England March 2024 ✅
Scotland July 2024 ✅
Here is an article in nature showing how the passage of anti-trans laws in the US correlates with increases in suicide attempts in those states.


Here is a counter to the Cass report which is full of a lot of flaws.
 
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