You are one of my favorite posters here, and yes, you do prefer sportsmanship when you can. Vulnerability is great until someone with bad intent sees it as a sign of weakness. Instead of vulnerability, I would substitute "humanity." I'd prefer not to be vulnerable, but show my humanity instead. It's okay to be human, because we all are.
BTW, I just checked out the Clone forum, and boy are they angry. They make the cesspool look like the kiddie pool right now. Talk about sour grapes. If they really cared, they would send more checks to support wrestling there, and get involved. My guess is all they want to do is bring the Hawks down, not improve. I think that we have higher expections.