I hate to break this to you, but emotions run high at sporting events. All sports all ages, get out more I guess. I don't watch them intently for something to be offended by, which clearly you do and nobody is shocked by that.
I watch the wrestling, I don't watch the bench, and you're commenting from the same place I am, hundreds of miles away, but somehow you picked up on everything going on in the Arena. You are one talented fella that's for damn sure. LOL! You cherry pick things that get your panties in a bunch while giving the other team a pass.
When Tom and Terry Brands start punching other Coaches, Wrestler's or Fans, I'll worry about it (or throwing chairs onto the mat....). They've been doing this a long time and that's never happened. Get back to me when it does. They have their guys backs, that's good enough for me. Same as Gable, he got a bit fired up at times too. Watch some old tape and get back to us.