People would rather argue with and insult each other rather ignore them. There should be no need for mods if the thin-skinned among us would just use that button.
I try to keep my insults fairly lame; clown, tool, lib, etc. Words like MAGAt and fggot both seem more dehumanizing than is needed but I agree you don’t deserve a timeout if others don’t get the same.
And to claim Kakert wasn’t a lib who often silenced cons - if only temporarily - is a bit disingenuous. The scales have been tipped in the opposite direction and some aren’t very happy about it. 🤷♂️