Partially agree but oftentimes the parents are going to make a better decision than a 17 year old kid.Yep, big parental influence going on. Actually feel bad for him in a way. I would hate it if my parents were trying to influence my decision on where i should go. I think the best thing to do is to be there for advice and support and let them choose their own path.
They shouldn't be stipulating to him where he's going but their input might be the best thing the kid has going for him assuming they aren't idiots.